There is a pivotal scene in the hit movie Jerry Maguire, where Tom Cruise’s character, which was modeled after one of the most famous sports agents of all time, Leigh Steinberg, gets drunk as a result of losing his biggest clients, his job, and his girlfriend all in one fell swoop.
Not known for being realistic, Hollywood then shows him sobering up the very next day, getting back to work, and as a poster-child for “it’s never too late,” he eventually finds the real meaning in his life, getting a new girlfriend, and a contract for the only loyal client he has left.
While the movie may be based on the real life of Leigh Steinberg, it differs in two key aspects: Steinberg didn’t sober up after only one night of drinking, and eventually he found himself with no NFL clients at all.
At one point the most prolific NFL agent of all, representing half of all the starting quarterbacks, and representing the first pick in the draft 6 of 7 years, Steinberg hasn’t represented a single NFL player in 5 years. He also doesn’t live in a lavish house on the Orange County coast as Tom Cruise’s character did, or work in a Newport Beach office with a view of the ocean.
The much harsher reality is that nowadays, Steinberg lives in a leased townhouse, and works in a small building in the industrial park area of Irvine, California. True to the movie, although a few years delayed, he is trying to find the true meaning in his life, working through a recent bankruptcy, hoping to one day represent athletes again.
If the ending of Jerry Maguire had been true to life, it would have shown a much bleaker picture, of Steinberg suffering a string of business setbacks, arrests due to alcohol, and a divorce, leaving him broke and drunk.
According to Steinberg, he used drinking as a means to escape his problems. As is usually the case, however, he found that it only served to make his problems worse. He went on to say “I found out a very dangerous thing. It is legally permissible to consume alcohol in the light of day. At the end, I got to the blackout point, where I just couldn’t remember things. I was unreliable. I could never tell what was going to happen.”
The worst for Steinberg came in March of 2010. It was at that point that he agreed to start attending a 12-step recovery program that he had previously tried and failed at prior points in his life. Although he won’t release details due to the anonymous nature of the program, he currently attends regularly, has a sponsor, and works all the 12 steps. He goes on to say that he has been sober for over 700 days, and that his 2-year birthday will be on March 21.
There had been a lot of whispers and rumor of his health, be it physical or financial, and he addressed them all last month when he released a statement explaining how alcoholism had caused many of his problems. At the same time, he filed for bankruptcy.
According to Steinberg, going public was extremely liberating. He went on to say “I am an alcoholic today and will be for the rest of my life. I don’t want anyone else to go through the pain and denial that I did. You only live this life once. I still think I can be of service.”
Steinberg openly admitted that his alcoholism has caused a lot of emotional and financial harm to people he cares about, but also that he has friends who have stuck by him through this entire process.
One of those friends is June Jones, longtime client and friend, and SMU football coach. When asked about Steinberg, he says “Leigh always had the athletes’ best interests in mind. He was so different from everybody else. He’s a special guy. He’s got a big heart.”
According to Steinberg, he avoided filing for bankruptcy as long as possible out of a moral obligation he felt in regards to paying his debts. He also said that ultimately it was necessary, and that while the proceedings have been embarrassing at times, the most important thing is his sobriety, and his ability to be of service to others.
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